I tried to keep going, one step at a time, one day at a time. He's ridiculously mature for his age, and he is absolutely gorgeous. He sounds perfectly fabulous for you. They think compromising and losing are the same thing. I've just turned 43 and seeing a gorgeous 27 year old. Its all fairly new and we are now intimate also for the past couple of weeks.
Anonymous I'm going through something similar. However, I just worry that I am getting old, and I need to settle down, start having babies and such and he is in his prime… Just makes you think about things, I would give anything to be 5 years younger. Then it hits me: He was born in 1971. . I'm 55, though I don't look it.
It's an immediate trigger when you're dating a younger guy. I feel sad that he has the most important thing I might never have if I stay. Like you, God blessed me by putting a younger man into my life, and he had a reason for doing so. What do I do next, what do I like? Did you ever deal with this with your guy. Seven years really isn't much different from that. It took a while but we have been seeing each other for 1 year. I don't know how this happened it just did he treats me differently than any guy I've dated and trust me they were my age or even older.
He is, by far, the most romantic, spontaneous man I've ever dated. O well, the point is too that we have the same goals and the same beliefs and the same respect for each other. Then a day before our three year anniversary he dumped me through text saying he only had time for his kid and himself. If i had to get married again I would've married a younger man. I mean I think I was genuinely touched and that it wasn't at all out of despair or loneliness. Like the way he plays is mad irritating sometimes! I was married to a somewhat younger man, 4 years.
After 12 increasingly dreary years capped by a wrenching divorce, I couldn't imagine why women in my situation childless divorcées complained about the prospect of reentering single life. I do have to say that he is such a gentleman, very respectful, responsible, kind, etc! The outcome of said discussions in my head, I'm not gonna rule it out but I think we may need to get to know each other a little better first. I was 30 when I met my now husband who was 22. He's 14, fifteen in just under a month. Movie dtars are 20, 30 and 40 over.
He made feel ugly and worthless. I got out of a terrible 5 year relationship with a man who is my age and he treated me like crap! I dated a 21-year-old when I was 27! I was told to support him because although he doesn't say it. There are laundromats on-call if he can't figure it out himself. Reading your stories though it comforts me knowing there are others that are older than their guys and are very happy. We've had the kid conversation and been very open with other, and we have awesome sex. Anonymous Same situation been together for 3 yrs when we met at a mutual job he worked the kitchen later on became manager. I give him space I just dnt know how to deal sometimes.
Anonymous I'm 26 and dating a 19 yr old guy who absolutely worships me! At the end of the day, their ridiculous concerns and our inevitable frustration is a part of the relationship we signed up for. I guess I was letting the sour grapes of my exBoyfriend get to me about my wonderful new younger guy. He looks way older than his age due to years of smoking, and he looks frail. My wife is 6 years older than me. If people wanted to deliberately find someone who had the best odds of living roughly the same length of time as themselves, women would be looking for guys who were roughly 5 years younger than themselves, and vice-versa. God placed him in my life for a reason and Im running…. We are dating with the potencial of getting married eventually… God willing.
Anonymous I totally agree with you! The scary part now is he's feeling lost, feeling like he doesn't knw who he is anymore. And yes he wants to get married. Think back to when you were that age. He tried to see me for two months and I finally gave in. He cried when he made the decision and said he will never forget me.
It was a fling that felt like i'd met my soulmate but of course reality hit us hard and we ended up pregnant. He was more mature than some men my age. Anonymous I'm really glad to find this blog with everyone's comments. Scared to take that leap of faith but I'm going to. Only some… Get over the fact that you graduated from high school before he even started You made your choice.
There was plenty of sexual tension and then I learned he was a groomsman and he found out I was his best friend's mom. My husband is nearly 16 years younger than I am. The fact that you have three holes in one earlobe isn't even worth a comment from a younger man, whose last girlfriend may have had a pierced tongue. I'm 22 and i'm in love with a 16 year old. We love the same music, movies, food, dog lovers.